rockoz.com - Rights of Custody Kids, Australia

CHILDREN'S VIEWS MUST BE HEARD — CUSTODY HURTS KIDS — AUSTRALIAN KIDS HAVE RIGHTS

rockoz
benevolent activism

rockoz.com@gmail.com

rights of custody kids

australia

Kids Lawyer Guidelines

LOVE: What do separated parents love most?

... their children, themselves or the Law?

What follows was written by the Sufi poet Rumi.

The Path of Love

Our bodies, our minds, and even our souls are the abodes of love, not love itself. Love exists everywhere around us and penetrates everything - it is the treasure of this world, and by its very essence it cannot be kept captive within our own coffers.

True Love exists beyond the people we love. When we understand this the expectations we place upon others diminish: We are loved by existence itself, and so we do not need to feel rejected or hurt when a partner or friend isn’t able to love us the way we wish. When our feelings depend on no one we have attained a high state of realisation - our love is our own, our happiness is our own; we are responsible for the way we feel and there is no longer any need to ask others to provide us with these states.

This is an important step on the path of love: Link your spirit to love itself, open your heart to existence, choose love as your spiritual journey and you will never be disappointed in humans.

As a parent, you can choose to "fight for your rights" or to look after your children. Lawyers will invariably encourage you to try and win. They will represent the other parent as your enemy. The lawyers' high income depends on their ability to "keep you fighting".

Read The Path of Love again and think about what it really means. .

Concentrate on your children's lives and their future. Ignore the temptation to use yoru separation as an opportunity to punish or score points against the kids.

God is love.
Children are love.
Children love both parents and God.

Love is all there is!

Your children do not need much money or many things.

They long for the love of their parents.

Both parents.

If your son or your daughter is longing for the love, companionship and company of the "non-custodial parent" then the Family Court has destroyed yet another child's life.

The concept of custody is an affront to the rights of children to know both their parents, their grandparents and other significant adults.

If you are the parent who has "lost" custody then mourn for your children's souls.

If you are the parent who has "won" custody then you have been handed a cruel tool by the Court.

You need not use it.

You can use your "win" to destroy your ex-partner, your children, their self-confidence, your own relationship with them and their futures.

If you are pleased to have won, then you are on the no-win path of family alienation and torment.

For your kids, "Love is ALL there is!". Not just your love, both parents' love.

There is no substitute for the missing parent.

Swallow your pride. Ignore your "win" and give your children free and unfettered access to the other parent.

Better still, ignore the Family Court's determination to ignore children in favour of judging which parent will win.

Allow your children to win.

Allow your children the Love that they crave.

After all, that is all that there is!

Avoid Family Court.
Love misunderstood.

Courts, lawyers, judges, barristers and the rest are interested in "justice" and have very little understanding of "love".

The law repeats the term "child's best interests" many times but fails to allow the term "love" a place.

That a child requires at least both parents' love is not understood by lawyers.

Tens of thousands of dollars will accrue to lawyers, barristers and experts if you choose to have a courtroom battle.

The temptation to keep the case running and the bills rising is too great for legal eagles to resist.

Only a wise parent can think of the child first.